This woman at work is going trough divorce, fine, things don't work out, don't work out. Doing exactly what my mom was doing years ago, exactly the same, even dresses the same, I feel like I can see and predict the future here. She loves and hates him, two different feelings, basically walking at the same time in two different directions, children fully involved, refusing to listen. At work I dont have time to work, and I have to hear the story, express my feelings. I tell her, if you still love him, just say something, write a letter, she doesn't want; to leave him alone, no, he is the kids father. One time I was on his side about something, and she didn't talk to me foe a week. Exactly like mom if I took my father's side even once.
I am some story, and I had more in it, I talked to my mom, mentioned my father, and instantly my mom wants to know why I am asking, at the end of our conversation their marriage, divorce, the second wife, was all my fault. About anything else I can talk to my mom, get great advises, but not about my father. May be it's better to have many husbands, it will not be matter what one did. My step brothers almost the same age like me and my sister, they have different fathers, but they call my father "father" and the same, all the time we were living in our city, come neighbors were asking us stupid questions, talking about my parents, because they were doctors and every one knew them. Only us, me, my sister, my step brothers it didn't bother.
Life is great; there is always a second chance, the first chance gone, may be second will come faster.
