I have met a woman, a single mom, we had dinner with some friends. And she was talking about her, the children, and was crying all the time. I asked what she was crying about, everyone is alive, healthy, but the drama so much in her, she wouldn't get anything, no matter what you say. To me, this is more hopeless than raise child by yourself. And really, you don't even raise child by yourself, there are always family, relatives, schools, daycare, the women are not alone on the strange island.